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Spring Valley high school student update

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An investigation is being conducted to see if federal charges against the Deputy  by the name of Ben Fields. 

He is not serving or protecting so he shouldn't be a cop. 

Khloe to divorce Lamar

Khloe Kardashian is taking a pretty big risk by officially withdrawing her divorce petition to stay with Lamar Odom. He is an addict and there’s no telling if he’ll be able to stay on the sober wagon. According to a TMZ report, Khloe has made it very clear to Lammy that if he ever uses drugs again, she’s calling Tyrone to help him come get his s#!t.

Apparently Khloe is “annoyed” that people are lookin’ at her like a damn fool for taking Lamar back, but she knows that if she isn’t in his life, the worst is yet to come. Lamar’s medical bills are upwards of several millions and he just doesn’t have that kind of bread any more. 

Lamar is said to still be on the Kardashian health insurance plan, but Khloe doesn’t just want him to have coverage, she wants him to have a support system that can help keep him clean.

My opinion is when you truly love someone you go above and beyond, for them.  But when a person is self destructing and you know their potential to do better, you fight yourself to either stick around and watch or distance yourself.  In this case we've seen Khloe try both, I hope everything works out and they're on the high road to happiness.  

Pray and stay out of the way!

   

Talk is Cheap!

Talking through your issues costs Nothing!  However, it's also very useful knowing how to communicate with an irrational person. I know how frustrating it can be to try to explain something to someone who just doesn’t want to listen to your arguments and who only cares about their side of the story. Well, even if in this situation you are tempted to just leave and to just let them think they are right, sometimes you just can’t do that because you have a certain responsibility and you need to behave in a different way. With a bit of work, you can manage to learn how to defuse someone’s anger and help them reach a more rational frame of mind. Here are a few very useful tips on how to communicate with an irrational person that will help you calm a situation down: 

1. REMAIN CALM

One of the most helpful tips on how to communicate with an irrational person is to try to remain calm and to avoid getting all worked up, no matter how hard. Just take a deep breath, think of something that will make you feel good, that will help you calm down and that will help you see things from a different perspective. If you respond with anger, they will think that their anger is justified. This will only make them feel even angrier and the entire situation might escalate. Learn how to control your temper and remember that your goal is to make them feel calm as well, so you’ll be able to reason with them.

2. SEE THINGS FROM THEIR PERSPECTIVE

Before making any decision, try to put yourself in the other person’s shoes and see things from their perspective. Maybe they are just frustrated because they are having a bad day or they are just going to a rough time and they can’t see things clearly. Allow them to explain themselves and once they finish, try to present them your point of view.

3. KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT

Another very important thing you should do if you are trying to reason with someone is to make sure you know what you are talking about. Ensure you're right - check all the facts and then, when you are sure you know what you are talking about, present your argument. Make sure you are not using faulty information to prove your point and that your position is well thought out, well documented and that you’ve done your research.

4. SET BOUNDARIES

When you are dealing with someone who is being irrational, try to set some clear boundaries or limits, so to let them know what behavior you think is acceptable and what actions you can’t tolerate. Just tell them what you are not willing to put up with and remain calm. Make your conditions clear and ask them to respect your boundaries, since you will do the same with theirs.

7. REALIZE SOMETIMES YOU JUST CAN’T WIN

Sometimes you just have to realize that there’s no winning and that no matter how hard you try, you just can’t get through to a person. There are a lot of irrational and angry people who just need to vent, so try to remain calm, let them say what they want to say, so they can get it out of their system, try to endure their fury and then, maybe they will be more reasonable and they will listen to your arguments.

It’s not always easy to reason with someone who behaves in an irrational way. You need to have a lot of patience and you need to remain calm, no matter how angry they get. You wouldn’t want to make things worse, so try to keep your cool and look for different ways to reason with them. How do you communicate with an irrational person? Do you have any other tips you could give us on this matter? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section! 

And if all else fails, hit the unfollow button even in real life!!!

Madison Montag..wait a minute Lamar Odom update

This story is slowly beginning to make sense, new developments have been revealed about Lamar Odom's Love Ranch visit:

Shortly, after the world learned that Lamar Odom was found unconscious in a Nevada brothel, workers at the Love Ranch identified the two women who may have helped save his life.

Ryder Cherry 

Madison Montag

Before he was airlifted to the Sunrise Hospital in Las Vegas, Lamar was discovered in his suite by two Love Ranch workers who attempted to revive him.

They have been identified as Madison Montag and Ryder Cherry, both of whom are believed to be legal prostitutes employed by the brothel.

Thus far, neither of the women has commented on the situation, though Montag did tweet a series of praying hands Emojis shortly after the first updates on Odom's condition were made public.

Cherry has locked her social media accounts, presumably after being bombarded with requests for comment.

Love Ranch owner Dennis Hof says he and his employees attempted to revive Odom, but the 35-year-old vomited and remained unresponsive.

They called 911 and may have saved his life, but his prognosis remains grim.

Tangled web.

Lamar Odom's Love Ranch Update

The NBA star athlete is alive but not in good condition at all.  However the owner of the Love Ranch Dennis Hof has made more shocking revelations about the now public $75k week of partying hookers and drugs, get more of this story and pictures below:

It appears that Dennis Hof has done quite a series of interviews covering many aspects of Lamar Odom being found unconscious at his Love Ranch. We’re hearing that some of these are raising eyebrows with law enforcement as his stories are changing somewhat. After we broke the story that Madison Montag was one of the girls who found Lamar, it was picked up and Hof had stated in interviews that the former basketball star had been ‘chatting’ online with Nevada’s first legally licensed transsexual courtesan the week preceding his visit to the brothel.

 Hof stated in a Sirius XM interview that Odom had intended to meet her and spend some time together.

Hof originally told People Magazine that it was Ryder Cherry and Madison that had found Lamar, but then he changed his story ever so slightly with another media outlet to say that he wound up with Ryder Cherry and Monica Monroe. Our sources say different and that it was Montag he was also with which was also confirmed when we called the Love Ranch early last Wednesday morning. Our source, who understandably wishes to remain anonymous, said that the stories have changed so that it wouldn’t get out Lamar was with Montag too. “Things have gotten out of control there, and that’s why girls are leaving and not coming back,” they said. “The more Hof talks, the worst things keep getting.”

As predicted, Khloe sent her lawyer to dismiss their divorce case so this whole storyline is right out of the Kardashian playbook for the upcoming season. At least friends of the family won’t have to put out money for another wedding since the court’s backlog kept them from officially divorcing the couple.

Don’t be shocked if the two wind up having a renewal of their vows though as a great ratings draw. Naturally, they’ll say that since they’ve been given a second chance in their relationship, this is only natural; plus that will give E! another wedding special, and the two will have another bonanza of wedding renewal gifts to sort through. Yes, it sounds cynical, but even the most diehard of Kardashian fans know that this is exactly how it will all play out.

Feeling Myself!!!

Been in your feelings lately? It's okay to be sensitive.  Sensitivity is a great trait to carry its one of the easiest ways to connect and relate to others.  However, you can be too sensitive.  Being able to relate is fine but being so sensitive that you stick to every detail can leave you exhausted and ultimately stuck in your feelings.  

Check out the following tips that will help you be able to relate relax and release (without crying or whatever it is you do at your most sensitive moments). Tee-hee

1 Stay steady under pressure 

2 Grow up; mama said there'd be days like this 

3 Redefine & remain positive about the future 

4 Fall down & get back up again 

5 Set goals and MAKE THEM HAPPEN 

6 Kill self doubt (knife gun poision bare hands I don't care-kill it 

7 If you can't fix it why bother? Let go of things that don't matter 

You need mental and emotional toughness to succeed in this world but you need sensitivity too. The key is achieving the balance.

Try and let me know how much better it gets!!! What do I know I'm just Karma 

Celebrity sightings at Mr. Chow in Beverly Hills Joseline Hernandez and Stevie J of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta

Joseline Hernandez and Stevie J were out for dinner last night We got the chance to meet the two.  They were very down to earth it was a great birthday surprise for me at Mr. Chow 

Check my selfies with the king and Queen of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta  😆💃🏽

Joseline and Myss Karma 

Thank you Joseline 

We can't wait for the return of the Love and Hip Hop stars🎉

Sleep Test

Sleep can be a beautiful thing when maintained at a good balance.  Either you're getting enough rest, a good nights rest or full on beauty sleep!!! 

For a period of a year I worked really hard on a promotion and balanced everything else making no adjustments to balance everything out.  If I got 2 hrs of sleep or none that was just it.  Physically I was driven by my goal so I didn't feel tired, it was my outward appearance that was off to me.  Why does my makeup look funny and what's up with my hair? And over time I realized it wasn't my makeup that changed it was my face and my hair was suffering too. 

These changes occurred because I wasn't getting my rest.  I got help with changes and routines to help get more rest and more out of the day.

SOME TIPS 

-no naps fight it

-multi task ex: help kid 1 with homework n have kid2 do grocery list 

-delegate easy task to family 

-be more physically active IN-HOME w/ the family 

-dump stress  before bed babies aren't the only ones who need to wind down 

-exercise 

-soothing drink (what soothes u) 

-avoid caffeine after 3p 

I'm sleeping better and getting more done n a day... Ba da pa pa pa I'm lovin it!!! 

Talking to Strangers Now!

 

Growing up we all remember being told not to talk to strangers, for obvious reasons, but now how do we feel about talking to strangers? 

Today on my train commute to work you see hundreds of people each ride avoiding eye contact and hiding behind the phone oh and headphones.  The benefits of talking to the right strangers can create insight to a whole other world of "thinking". Have you ever talked to someone about something and you thought you had your mind made up until they give their perspective and said "wow I never thought of it that way" ? And even more so on subjects you don't talk to your friends and family about.

A few ways I've personally benefitted from talking to strangers:

-kill time

-make someone's day

-You're outgoing Now!!!

-Adrenaline & Confidence booster 

-Unexpected insight (new mind)

-Variety of people and experiences 

Heyyy Stranger😉