Hold On!

I’ve been in a relationship with a man for the past 7 years and we have a son together.

His family has never been supportive of our relationship and they don’t like me. Though we’ve been together for so long, and I don’t like some of his ways, he has made some changes and has enrolled in college and stopped hanging out every night. But, there are things that haven’t changed like him wanting to play around online and texting other females behind my back, and making a fool out of me.

I’ve dealt with lies, dishonesty, and just straight games with this man. Every time I think our relationship has reached another level and think that things between us has gotten better, I will find out that he is online talking to other women, and finding numbers and text messages from random women in his phone. I have been more than a good woman to him. I have showed him nothing but compassion, love, honesty, faithfulness, and loyalty. What have I received in a return is a bunch of lies and games and I’m so done.

I forgive him time and time again, and thought he changed. He says he is in love with me and only wants to be with me and he says he wants to get married. But, I feel that it’s all about actions and his actions shows otherwise.

At some point in every relationship you reach a pivotal crossroads. You won't be expecting it but out of nowhere, you have to ask: Is he The One or not? If you decide 'not', you move on to the next option. But if, on the other hand, the answer is 'Yes, he's The One!' you'd better be prepared for what happens next... My guess; the outcome will be greatly representative of the bricks you've laid out for your ideal relationship! Good luck, because true love is amazingly sweet! 😊