***STOP BEING CAPTAIN SAVE"EM***
Stop entering into a relationship thinking you're the savior; thinking you can change them. Everyone doesn't want saving and some people will never change. Entering into a mentally and emotionally unstable person's life will only result in an unstable relationship. In return they will become a burden that you want be able to get rid of because you may feel responsible. It's ok to offer to help a person but love them from a distance. Allow them to reach out for help, for love, self-security and self-sufficiency. You can’t make them love you, be faithful, or ambitious to build a future with you. If a person is so low to where they don't even love themselves then I guarantee you that they will never truly love you either. At some point in your life, you need to decide to invest in more of a definite and likely person who will be able to give you all that you to give in return. One who knows what they want, who they want, how to love, whose ambition about living, and who is loyal. STOP SETTLING!!!